Single And Loving It!

Life Is What You Make It

Welcome to all you single ladies out there who have defied the odds and continue to live a passionate, fulfilled and enjoyable life even after your breakup. This website doesn't just cover my journey of fun, travel and new experiences but it also focuses on self-actualization, career, networking and being a success.

As you join me in this journey of self discovery in all its grimy, stubborn, shocking yet unapologetic glory, I hope that you too will be able to unlock the key to who you truly are. Discover your gift, live fully and while you're at it, be the best version of you.

Happiness is not by chance, it's a choice. So until Mr Right comes into your life, I dare you to embark on a 'date yourself' challenge! Share the creative ways that you've been enjoying single life via our Twitter or Instagram @SingleLifexx

In the meantime, have a look through the myriad of content and media that this website has to offer!

Why Should I?

How dare you dim your light in response to their insecurities? Who gave you the right to downplay your brilliance to keep them comfortable? Who gave you permission to be less than who you reallyRead more

Set your standard and stick to it

There is something powerful in loving yourself. When you've taken that downtime (from relationships) to understand what makes you laugh, what gives you joy and what invigorates and revitalizes you,Read more

I Like You Trump

I like you Trump I don't care what anyone else says You are exactly what my people needed The harbinger of change, reawakening what appeared to be dead You see the Black community was asleep uRead more

Nne Agwu (Mother of Divine Nation) Storytelling Festival 2018

Compliments to Nkechinyere Nwobani for majority of the pictures.Read more

Trip to Dorset

Talk about beautiful! This is Dorset, a beautiful county located along the coast in the UK. I spent my weekend there (as a treat to myself for my birthday) and even though it took me over 3 hours toRead more

Radiate Windrush

I went to this event on Saturday 23rd June and it was based at Crystal Palace Park. I can't remember how I came across it but I was keen to attend given the recent scandal about the Windrush generatiRead more

Black Market Festival 2018

Well, as a follow up to the Goddess event, I decided to also attend The Black Market & Film Festival which took place last Saturday. As always, the black entrepreneurs in our community showed up inRead more


Time goes by so quickly! Who would have thought that since the time I last posted about Krav Maga, a month would have come and gone! However, it's been quite an interesting and thoroughly enjoyableRead more

You Are Not Responsible For What Someone Else Did

"Who told you it was your fault? Who said you were responsible for their actions? How ironic that they should do it Yet you should bare the shame And when you break your silence You are also toRead more

Purposefully Broken for Greatness

Now this post is significantly different from the ones I usually do but it is definitely worth sharing. As I continue to network and go to inspiring events, I inevitably come across incredibleRead more

Spain - Madrid & Cordoba

I have traveled to Spain several times and absolutely love the country! I think it's because the weather reminds me so much of the Caribbean. However, I would be lying if I said that I didn't encountRead more


I visited Xi'an back in 2012 and spent an entire year immersed in the culture and the environment so that I could enhance my Chinese language skills. This language element formed part of my 4-yearRead more
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