Dear Woman, I'm Not Your Enemy

Dear woman I'm not your enemy

And deep down you know that it's true

Dear woman I'm not your enemy

The only enemy you're fighting is you

Don't hang on to your man for dear life

When I come into full view

Don't snarl at me in spite

For something I didn't even do

You seem to believe I am a threat

Just by my sheer existence

And you think your death grip on your man

Will ensure he keeps his distance

But dear woman if you weren't so consumed

By the figments of your imagination

You'd realise that your dignity

Isn't even worth an altercation

You'd realise that a committed man

Doesn't require any restraint

And that you playing Sherlock Holmes

Will not keep him a Saint

You'd realise that if you have to resort

To watching his every move

You're wasting valuable years playing detective

When you could've already found a better dude.

Dear woman I'm not your enemy

So don't get angry when you see a sistah dressed up

Don't start getting loud, outrageous and rude

Or constantly walk pass me to flaunt your stuff

We were blessed by God with a gift

More powerful than our good looks

It's more than what's between our legs

Or our ability to get into a man's good books

We hold the seeds of great nations

And can determine a better tomorrow

By the children we rear with these hands

And how we encourage through sweat and sorrow

Whether it be a leader or the house help

We have the power to assert our presence

To create a tidal wave of change

And leave indelible marks in our absence

So I'm not your enemy dear woman

We need not fight each other for attention

I'd rather celebrate what makes us uniquely beautiful

Our grace, our style, our moves, our complexion

Dear woman I'm not your enemy

And deep down you know that it's true

Your fight with me is pointless

'Cause you're fighting the very reflection of you

AUTHOR: DivineB-U-Ti