Start Learning The Lessons


They say that unlike the school curriculum, life has a tendency to make you experience a situation first, then teach you the lessons afterwards. Regardless of if you agree with this logic, the fact still remains that there is always a lesson in everything that we do. There is always an opportunity to learn more about yourself in every experience that you have. We tend to look at what the other person could have done to make a situation better when we are just as responsible for what happens based on the actions that we take.

Take the time to reflect and understand yourself especially after big life changes (eg. divorce, separation or break up). Try to find the lesson and most importantly, learn it. Otherwise, you will be doomed to make the same mistakes again.