Welcome to the #DateYourselfChallenge!

Ok....so the plan is that (if you feel brave and inspired enough) you can share your own experiences (through video and/or images) of your single life adventures! These would then be displayed here for the rest of our community of 'single ladies' to view (with jealousy lol!) and to likewise be inspired by your journey of fun and self-discovery! You can join me on Instagram or Twitter (@singlelifexx) to share your memories or you can contact me through the contact form on my home page.

Don't forget to include the hashtag #dateyourselfchallenge

Let's show 'em how it's done!xxxxx

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